1. We use resolutions as an Excuse to beat ourselves to a pulp.
If only I could put kale in my coffee, then I can really wake myself up and get my nutrients, too!
I should start making my own laundry detergent, composting and reading Tolstoy. In its original.
Put down that oh-so-helpful magazine and get some fresh air.
There are some lovely resolutions you can make to treat yourself better, and still improve your life.
2010 my resolution was to only knit with high quality yarn. Sure, I still reach for a ball of acrylic every now and then, but for the most part, I respect my work enough to use only the best materials.
(Ironically, the girlfriend who gave me that resolution now owns a high-end wool shop. I sort of wonder if there was some prescient guerilla marketing involved...)
Choose a resolution that makes you happy. Not one that fills your heart with dread.
2. We give up our resolutions too easily.
A million years ago, I took a project management workshop where we learned how to do a brainstorming exercise using post-it notes. And one of the navy blue suited, 90s Rachel haircut participants actually raised her hand to ask what we should do if we didn't have yellow post-it notes. Can we use pink? Would store brand be okay?
Lady, it was just a suggestion.
Same thing with the resolution deadline. The January to December thing - just a suggestion.
If you find yourself in February still not having put your spices in alphabetical order or crunching your abs, you can start now. You don't have to wait till the clock winds its way back to Jan 1.
3. We are quick to suggest resolutions for Everyone else.
Much as we love looking in the mirror and coming up with ways to improve ourselves, we love even more looking at each other and offering suggestions of ways other people can improve.
It is amazing how many people have offered me suggestions for New Years' resolutions over the past two weeks. More housework. Less yarn. Shorter haircut.
I would never do that to you.
Well, if you insist, there is one teeny-tiny way in which you can improve.
I appreciate deeply that you read this blog.
To fully enjoy the experience, you can comment. You don't have to say a lot, but if you threw me the occasional one-liner I would be forever grateful. Anonymous is fine.
Commenting on the blog. A New Year's Resolution from me to you.